How to choose a custom split (60/40 or 66/33) without guesswork

Custom splits can be emotionally easier than proportional rules. This page shows a practical way to pick a custom split: start with a goal (balanced leftovers), then validate it with rate‑rise and one‑income stress tests.

Last updated: 2025-12-17
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Methodology
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Calculator
Inputs
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Income
£

Take-home monthly (after tax).

£

Take-home monthly (after tax).

Property & mortgage
£
£

That’s 16% of the property price.

Shared costs
£
Included

£

Does your savings rate survive after shared costs?

How it works
Summary
Clear totals, then fairness and resilience.
Mortgage
Mortgage payment
£2,066
Loan amount
£420,000
Deposit
£80,000 (16%)
Total monthly shared cost
Household total
£3,361
Housing (excl. groceries): £2,811 · Groceries included
Stamp Duty (SDLT)
Estimated SDLT
£15,000
Effective rate
3%

Splits
Split suggestions: proportional, 50/50, or custom.
Proportional
A £2,076 · B £1,285
50/50
A £1,681 · B £1,681
Custom
A £1,681 · B £1,681
You pay
£2,076
You have £2,124 left
Partner pays
£1,285
Partner has £1,315 left
Savings goal / month
£700
Household leftover
£3,439
Does your savings rate survive? Comfortable
Comfortable ≥ £1,350 · Tight ≥ £700
Stress tests
Works if one income drops or rates rise?
Mortgage / month at +1%
£2,339
Total shared / month
£3,634
Disclaimer
This is budgeting guidance, not financial advice.
Results
£3,361 / month
Comfortable

Worked examples

Each example uses the same calculator engine. Use “Open in calculator” to share or compare scenarios.

Start at proportional, then lock in a custom split
Incomes: A £4,200 · B £2,600
Shared total: £3,361 / month
Split (proportional): A £2,076 · B £1,285 · Leftovers: A £2,124 · B £1,315
Lock to 66/34 and compare the leftovers
Incomes: A £4,200 · B £2,600
Shared total: £3,361 / month
Split (custom): A £2,219 · B £1,143 · Leftovers: A £1,981 · B £1,457

FAQ

Is choosing 66/33 “unfair” to the higher earner?
Not necessarily. It can be fair if both people agree on the trade‑off and the plan is sustainable. The best test is whether both people keep a healthy leftover and you can still save.
Should we adjust the split for a bigger deposit?
Some couples do, especially if one person contributed significantly more upfront. Use a custom split and see how it changes leftovers over time; consider documenting your agreement.
How often should we revisit a custom split?
At milestones: job changes, parental leave, rate refixes, or major cost changes. A stable rule can be good, but ignoring reality can create resentment.

Related links

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Standard vs first-time buyer relief + surcharges.
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Tip: open a guide in one tab and the calculator in another to compare options quickly.