How much house can we afford? (UK couples guide)
“Afford” isn’t just whether the mortgage gets approved. It’s whether you can pay the shared monthly total and still have enough left for life, saving, and resilience. This guide uses a simple couple‑friendly metric: leftover after shared costs.
The core idea: treat savings like a bill
Many couples “afford” a house on paper but stop saving once they move in. A more sustainable approach is to pick a savings goal first, then see what house price leaves enough leftover to hit it.
In the calculator, set a monthly savings goal. The “Comfortable / Tight / Risky” label then reflects whether your combined leftover covers the goal and a small buffer.
What to include in shared monthly costs
For affordability decisions, include the boring stuff: council tax, utilities, insurance, and a maintenance buffer. Groceries can be included or treated separately — but whichever you choose, keep it consistent when comparing house prices.
Don’t skip resilience checks
The same house can feel fine today and stressful in six months. That’s why you should check: +1% and +2% rate rises, and whether either person could cover the shared costs alone.
Worked affordability examples
Each example uses the same incomes and costs — only the property price and/or deposit changes. This makes the trade‑off obvious.